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He kisses my forehead at crosswalks. I want to disappear
Do I need to get over this?
May 29 • Jake Myers
I'm an LGBTQ+ ally' — and other things people say before the cringe
An Ask Jake Classic with some new thoughts
May 26 • Jake Myers
We built our dream together. Now it's the source of all our stress.
Is it going to ruin our marriage?
May 22 • Jake Myers
Still here, still queer — and still being dismissed.
Has he forgotten who paved the way for him?
May 15 • Jake Myers
I never thought I’d be a 50-year-old bachelor.
A classic Ask Jake. Plus, what I didn't say at the time…
May 12 • Jake Myers
He went from gym selfies to full-on explicit—without telling me
How do I tell him to stop?
May 8 • Jake Myers
I reported my hookup for disclosing his HIV status after sex. Was I wrong?
A classic Ask Jake. Plus, what I didn't say at the time…
May 8 • Jake Myers
All my friends think I’m a top. But I’m secretly a bottom. Why do I lie about this?
A classic Ask Jake. Plus, what I didn't say at the time…
May 8 • Jake Myers
Ask Jake, unfiltered
After nearly a decade of answering your questions, it’s time to go deeper.
May 5 • Jake Myers
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