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When the hottest guy at church is gay-baiting you
How am I supposed to respond?!
Jul 17
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Jake Myers
1
You didn't miss gay puberty. You're just on a different timeline.
A Classic Ask Jake with some new thoughts
Jul 15
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Jake Myers
My roommate's "appliance" is keeping me up
Am I a prude for mentioning it?
Jul 10
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Jake Myers
Can a relationship survive a fight over owning a gun?
Are we doomed?
Jul 3
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Jake Myers
June 2026
I couldn't believe what a white guy I hooked up with asked me to do.
Was I wrong to be offended?
Jun 26
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Jake Myers
Should I feel guilty for getting straight men to hook up with me?
An Ask Jake Classic with some new thoughts
Jun 24
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Jake Myers
From six-packs to Dad Bods: why my taste changed (and what that actually means)
What changed?
Jun 19
•
Jake Myers
2
It's not politically correct to say Masc4Masc. I don't care.
Is it really so bad to say I like manly guys?
Jun 12
•
Jake Myers
Life looks a little different as a 40-something year old gay man. Does queer joy expire?
A classic Ask Jake with some new thoughts
Jun 9
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Jake Myers
1
He said an open relationship. He didn't mean THAT open.
Did I do something wrong?
Jun 5
•
Jake Myers
1
May 2026
He kisses my forehead at crosswalks. I want to disappear
Do I need to get over this?
May 29
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Jake Myers
I'm an LGBTQ+ ally' — and other things people say before the cringe
An Ask Jake Classic with some new thoughts
May 26
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Jake Myers
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