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He said an open relationship. He didn't mean THAT open.

Did I do something wrong?

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Jake Myers
Jun 05, 2026
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Hi Jake,

My boyfriend and I have been together for about four years, and six months ago, we decided to open up our relationship. Before doing so, we had an honest talk about rules, expectations, safer sex, and what we wanted. We ultimately decided that outside hookups were allowed as long as we were transparent about them.

A few weeks ago, a group of frie…

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