What This Is
People write in with all kinds of questions.
Dating. Sex. Relationships. Kinks they feel weird about. Breakups they can’t get over. Things they did. Things they didn’t do.
On the surface, the details change. Underneath, they don’t.
Most of the time, the real question is some version of:
Am I too much? Not enough? Is there something wrong with me?
This is a place to answer that more honestly.
I’m a therapist. I work mostly with LGBTQ clients. I started writing Ask Jake in 2017, and over time it became less about advice and more about translating what’s actually going on underneath the situation.
Because once you can see that part clearly, things tend to shift.
What You Get
Free:
Weekly Ask Jake columns
One monthly deep dive
Paid:
Everything above
One additional monthly deep dive, with the full, unedited details
Founding:
Everything above
A private response to your own personal question, written just for you
Ask a Question
If there’s something on your mind, send it to jake@askjaketherapy.com
Your question may be part of a future Ask Jake, answered anonymously.
Find a Therapist
If you’re looking for someone to talk to, you can learn more here:
LGBTQTherapySpace.com
