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He went from gym selfies to full-on explicit—without telling me

How do I tell him to stop?

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Jake Myers
May 08, 2026
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Hi Jake,

My husband told me a while back that he wanted to post some mild photos of himself on Bluesky—shirtless, a little flirty, nothing too extreme. He’s always had a bit of an exhibitionist streak, and I’m no prude, so I’ve mostly found it endearing. I trust him, so it just felt like a harmless outlet. If anything, I’m kind of proud I have a sexy hus…

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