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I reported my hookup for disclosing his HIV status after sex. Was I wrong?

A classic Ask Jake. Plus, what I didn't say at the time…

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Jake Myers
May 08, 2026
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Hi Jake,

I still can’t believe what just happened.

So, I dated a guy for a few weeks that I met on Hinge. I finally spent the night at his place, and we hooked up that night and again the next morning. I stayed most of the day and was getting ready to leave when he told me he’s HIV-positive.

I gave him a kiss and said I understood and that this changed not…

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