All my friends think I’m a top. But I’m secretly a bottom. Why do I lie about this?

A classic Ask Jake. Plus, what I didn't say at the time…

Hi Jake,

All my friends think I’m a top, when I’m actually a bottom. And it’s not because that’s how I present, or that’s the type of energy I give off (although I do try to present as masc) — it’s because that’s what I tell them. So, yeah, I lie to everyone.

I actually haven’t even topped in a few years and am exclusively a bottom with hookups. I guess i…